today my friend engaged.
she, a 29-year-old girl engaged with a man in the same age. i am always happy when pals engaged or married. but this time, i really don't know what my mood is. she , engaged with a man who got know just for 40 days, they see each other just for 4 times. the time they face to face was less than 24 hours.
but ,they engaged! even she didn't know him deeply. even she didn't know whether she love him or not!  but , engaged, really !
of course , i wish they will be happy for ever. i wish the man is her Mr right!
god !what's love ? what's marriage?!
is it worth to engage or married with a man so casually just cos the gossip from others , cos the talks from parents , the pressure from family. it's unfair!we should be resposible to ourselves! i'd rather be alone than married with a man i dislike. happiness is controled by ourselves!

corner: you have to understand one thing, engage doesnt mean anything, not even marriage.  If you look at the engagement party as a regular party, you will feel better.
you know, fate is fate, when it comes, nothing can stop it.

maybe u are right!
anyway, marridge is not a game for me . and we chinese are always traditional.

I know what you mean corner, but if the marriage doesnt work out, you have to let go, and there is no choice at all.

we  bear too much pressure ,obey the tradation of China ,when a girl is 29 years old and she do not married , her parents will anxious about this matter .not only girls but also boys .this is tradition, no one is a stander-by.