SO, BABY...
2005-10-18 星期二(Tuesday) 小雨
??In order to grow,to travel new roads,we need to have a willingness to take a risk, to confront the unknown,to accept the possibility that we may "fail" at first. How we see ourselves as we try a new way of beling is essential to our ability to grow.Do we perceive ourselves as quick and curious? If so,then we tend to take more chances and to be more open to unfamiliar experiences.Do we think we are shy and indecisive? Then our sense of timidity can cause us to hesitate,to move slowly,and not to take a step until we know the ground is safe. Do we think we are slow to adapt to change or that we are not smart enough to cope with a new challenge? Then we are likely to take a more passive role or not try at all.
??These feelings of insecurity and self-doubt are both unavoidable and necessary if we are to change and grow.If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts,if we protect ourselves too much,then we cease to grow.We become trapped inside a shell of our own making.
??When we are dealing with anything,the important value I think is not the result itself,but rather the attitudes and fellings we have,our caution or courage,as we encounter new experience and unexcepted obstacles.In this world,there are always new ways to experience the life,new idea to try,new challenges to accept.
??So,baby,be braver to comeover the fears,to confront future with optimism,to face the new roads we`ve chosen,to take up challenges to make our dream come true!
# posted by 骑拖把的小妖 @ 2005-10-18 13:21 踩个脚印(1)

To me the most important thing is to find a way out before we try new things, it may be splendid of the unknown future and uncertain result, but it also may be a tragedy and catastrophe after failed! We don’t know how dire the nadir is and we don’t know who can help us then! So what kind attitude you take before the risk you would take, it is not so simple like writing a novel, especially like invest or more complicated things! That is a huge challenge!